The ways we love:a developmental approach to treating couples
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Published: |
Guilford Press,
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Publisher Address: | New York |
Publication Dates: | c2000. |
Literature type: | Book |
Language: | English |
Series: |
The Guilford family therapy series |
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Carrier Form: | xii, 356 p.: ; 24 cm. |
ISBN: | 1572305304 (hardcover) |
Index Number: | R493 |
CLC: |
R493 C913.1-05 R459.9 R749.055 |
Call Number: | R749.055/S532 |
Contents: |
Includes bibliographical references (p. 345-350) and index. Patterns of connection. Nurturing. The foundations of loving -- Cultural myths and marital malnourishment -- The development of nurturing: common treatment problems -- The caretaker and the needful child: a nurturing collusion -- Merging. Closeness as oneness -- The development of merging: common treatment problems -- Idealizing. The bedrock of passion -- The development of idealizing: common treatment problems -- The adoring parent and the adorable child: an idealizing collusion -- Patterns of separateness. Devaluing. "You're no good!" -- The development of devaluing: common treatment problems -- The judgmental parent and the guilty child: a blaming collusion -- Controlling. Who's in charge? -- The development of controlling: common treatment problems -- Competing. Who's better and vying for love -- Winning, losing, and gender -- Competing for superiority: development and common treatment problems -- Competing in love triangles: development and common treatment problems -- Love triangles in couple therapy. |